Why Dating a Guy Who Wants Investment Without Paperwork is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He wants me to invest in his business but has no paperwork"
The Brutal Truth
He wants your money without any real commitment. This shows a lack of seriousness and responsibility. His request is more about his needs than about building a partnership. You deserve someone who values your investment—both emotional and financial.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may rush to invest out of fear of losing him, thinking it will prove their worth and secure the relationship. This is dangerous—real love thrives on security, not desperation or financial obligation.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does investing in someone else’s dreams say about how you value your own needs and boundaries?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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