Why Being Left on Read While Watching Your Stories Signals Trouble
The Situation
"She watches my stories but leaves me on read"
The Brutal Truth
He’s playing games and keeping you at a distance. Watching your stories shows interest, but leaving you on read means he’s not willing to engage meaningfully. He’s keeping one foot in the door while holding back emotionally.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start overthinking and bombarding him with messages to gain clarity or seek validation. This is wrong because it often pushes the other person further away, eroding your self-worth and leading to unhealthy dynamics.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to earn someone's attention and engagement?
✨ What To Do Next
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