Understanding Long-Distance Relationship Challenges and Red Flags
The Situation
"She said long distance is too hard but won't try"
The Brutal Truth
She’s using distance as an excuse to avoid commitment. If she truly wanted the relationship to work, she would explore ways to bridge the gap instead of shutting down.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start overanalyzing her words and feel the need to convince her to stay or change her mind. This is wrong because it leads to self-doubt and undermines their own worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does this situation reveal about your needs for connection and how do you value yourself in this relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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