Why Lying to Your Therapist is a Dangerous Red Flag
The Situation
"She lies to her therapist and brags about it"
The Brutal Truth
She’s choosing to deceive even in safe spaces, signaling deep-rooted issues with honesty and vulnerability. This braggadocio reflects a desire for attention over healing, and it suggest poor accountability for her actions. Beware of someone who can’t confront their own truth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may overlook this behavior, rationalizing it as a joke or harmless bragging. This is misguided; it’s a huge red flag. Ignoring it allows toxic patterns to continue unchecked.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What past relationship patterns might I be repeating by ignoring red flags like this?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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