Married for a Visa: Understanding Toxic Relationship Flags
The Situation
"She married me for a visa and admitted it during a fight"
The Brutal Truth
She used marriage as a transactional means to an end, showing a lack of genuine commitment. This admission during a fight reveals deep-rooted dishonesty and emotional unavailability on her part, exposing the relationship's toxic foundation.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to soothe the situation by over-apologizing, ignoring their needs, or convincing themselves that love can fix this. This is dangerous; it perpetuates toxic dynamics and undermines their self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries or standards are you willing to set to ensure that your relationships are based on love and mutual respect, not convenience?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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