Why Mispronouncing Your Name in Dating is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"She mispronounces my name on purpose"
The Brutal Truth
He’s disrespecting you intentionally, using your name as a playground for his ego. This shows a lack of regard for your feelings or identity, indicating he sees this as a game rather than a mutual connection. This behavior is a clear sign of toxicity.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might laugh it off or overlook the disrespect to avoid conflict, thinking, 'Maybe he’s just joking.' This is wrong because it allows him to devalue you and diminishes your self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does mispronouncing your name signify about how he views you, and how does this align with your standards for respect in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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