Understanding Mixed Signals in Casual Dating: Jealousy and Intentions
The Situation
"She said she wants something casual but acts jealous"
The Brutal Truth
She wants a casual fling, but her jealousy shows she's emotionally invested. She's likely trying to manipulate the situation to secure your attention while claiming to want no strings attached. This is confusing and unhealthy behavior.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to reassure her by downplaying her feelings or accommodating her jealousy, thinking they can change her mind. This approach is misguided as it fuels unhealthy dynamics instead of establishing clear boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How do you feel when your partner's actions contradict their words, and what does that reveal about your needs for clear communication?
✨ What To Do Next
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