Why Being Mocked in Front of Friends is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"He makes fun of me in front of his friends"
The Brutal Truth
He’s trying to elevate his status by belittling you. This behavior shows he lacks respect and empathy, and it reveals his insecurity. He thinks putting you down will make him look cool to his friends, which is not love. It’s manipulation.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start laughing along as a way to deflect embarrassment, fearing they’ll lose his affection. This move is wrong because it sacrifices self-respect and sets the standard that disrespect is acceptable.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If a friend told you their partner mocked them in front of others, what would you say?
✨ What To Do Next
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