When Your Partner Asks Their Mom to Approve Your Dress: What it Means
The Situation
"He insists his mom approve my dress"
The Brutal Truth
He’s not just seeking validation from his mom; he’s trying to control your choices. This reveals insecurity in himself and in the relationship. It’s a way of enforcing external approval over your autonomy, showing he doesn’t respect your personal expression.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to change their dress or comply to gain approval, which leads to losing their authentic self. This is wrong because it undermines your worth and allows someone else's opinion to dictate your choices.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to establish to feel respected and valued in this relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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