Why Your Partner's Money Complaints Are a Red Flag
The Situation
"She insists I turn down overtime but complains about money"
The Brutal Truth
She wants you to limit your earnings for her convenience but then complains about financial issues, showing entitlement and inconsistency in priorities. It’s a manipulative setup that puts pressure on you to choose her wants over your financial stability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cut back on their work hours despite financial strain, trying to appease her complaints. This is unhealthy and reinforces dependency, neglecting individual needs and well-being.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How does compromising your own financial stability to meet someone else's demands reflect your sense of self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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