Relationship Red Flag: Partner Deletes Hobbies for More Couple Time
The Situation
"She deletes my hobbies because she wants 'more couple time'"
The Brutal Truth
She’s testing control and craves your constant attention, not a healthy balance. By eliminating your hobbies, she’s prioritizing her needs over yours, which isn’t okay. This behavior hints at insecurity and possessiveness.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might comply to keep the peace, abandoning their own interests. This is damaging because it creates resentment and stifles their individuality. You must prioritize your needs, not just theirs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What hobbies or interests have you let slide for someone else, and what would it feel like to reclaim that time for yourself?
✨ What To Do Next
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