How to Handle a Partner Whose Family Involves Themselves in Your Relationship
The Situation
"His sister inserts herself into all our decisions"
The Brutal Truth
He’s unable to set boundaries with his family, meaning your relationship lacks the primary ingredient: independence. His sister’s interference signals that you’ll always be second to family drama, leaving your needs unmet and your relationship unstable.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize or try to please his family, believing that if they like her, things will improve. This isn't just futile; it undermines her worth and individual needs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How would I feel in a relationship where my needs and boundaries are prioritized?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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