When Your Partner Ignores Parenting Agreements: Red Flags
The Situation
"He gives our toddler soda even after we agreed not to"
The Brutal Truth
He doesn't respect our agreed-upon boundaries, showing he prioritizes his desires over our child's well-being. This isn't just a one-off mistake; it reflects a lack of accountability and communication in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to keep bringing it up gently, hoping that by being nice or understanding, he’ll change his behavior. But this only reinforces his disregard for your boundaries and can lead to resentment.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does your reaction to this behavior say about your own boundaries and worthiness?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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