When Your Partner Wants You to Change Careers: Red Flags
The Situation
"She wants me to change careers because she doesn't like my schedule"
The Brutal Truth
She’s trying to control you by demanding changes to your career for her comfort. This behavior reveals insecurity and a lack of respect for your choices. It’s not about love; it’s about her need for you to fit her narrative.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might immediately consider changing their career to appease their partner, believing that it will secure love and approval. This is misguided because it sacrifices personal fulfillment and nestles insecurity in the relationship.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does this request reveal about your partner’s ability to accept you as you are?
✨ What To Do Next
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