Why Refusing to Apologize Unless You Beg is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He refuses to apologize unless I beg"
The Brutal Truth
This behavior shows he lacks empathy and believes he holds the power in your relationship. He's manipulating you into begging for acknowledgment, which is emotionally abusive and unacceptable.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start begging or overapologizing to appease him, thinking it's the only way to keep him around. This is wrong because it reinforces his controlling behavior and erodes your self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to beg for an apology or validation in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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