Her Self-Centeredness: A Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"She makes everything about herself when I'm upset"
The Brutal Truth
Her making everything about herself when you're upset shows a lack of empathy and emotional availability. It means she prioritizes her feelings over your needs, which is selfish and damaging to your emotional well-being.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to reassure her or minimize their own feelings to keep the peace, which only teaches her that her behavior is acceptable. This response directly undermines their own needs and self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What past experiences may be influencing my tolerance for this type of behavior in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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