Silent Treatment as a Form of Emotional Manipulation in Dating
The Situation
"She turns silent treatment into weeks of punishment"
The Brutal Truth
Her ‘silent treatment’ is emotional manipulation, designed to punish and control your feelings. Instead of communicating, she isolates you, showing a lack of respect for your emotions and needs. This behavior is toxic and indicative of deeper insecurity or avoidance issues.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after her, trying to understand why she's upset, or plead for communication, fearing that any distance could lead to abandonment. This only validates her behavior and reinforces her control over the situation. It's a cycle that fuels more emotional unavailability.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What patterns in your relationships have led you to accept treatment that diminishes your worth and well-being?
✨ What To Do Next
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