Why He Unmatched You After Making Plans: A Brutal Truth
The Situation
"He unmatched me after we made plans to meet"
The Brutal Truth
He likely ghosted you because he wasn't serious about the plans or you. This shows a lack of commitment, respect, and emotional maturity. Unmatching is a clear sign he didn’t value your connection enough to see it through.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may obsessively text him to try and understand why he unmatched or to win him back. This is a desperate attempt for validation, which only reinforces their feelings of insecurity and low self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels compelled to chase after someone who clearly doesn’t value your time?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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